The elusive real story behind sa male prostitute

Far from being over, many questions remain unanswered.

How did de Lille become aware of the sa male prostitute blog? It doesn’t seem plausible that she just stumbled across it.

She invoked the National Intelligence Agency (NIA) in her initial public outburst, even though it was not clear how they fitted into the picture. She was criticised for that in the blogosphere.

The Sunday Times article (on May 27 2007) mentioned Mbeki for the first time.

In Saturday’s Weekend Argus (June 02 2007), an article written by Michael Schmidt (on page 15) pointed out that that vindicated de Lille’s invocation of the NIA, because there was a national security risk if a member of Mbeki’s staff had disclosed private information (about Mbeki) to a prostitute.

This information about Mbeki was not posted to the sa male prostitute blog, although the Sunday Times article gives that impression because they quote him immediately after they report that he had updated his blog on Friday May 25 2007. They leave that (deliberately) vague. They can say it was in the emails they got from him. Or they can say that he edited his blog to remove the information.

I never saw anything about Mbeki in the RSS feed from the blog, which I have still in my Google Reader. Although he has removed the posts, the feed remains.

The Sunday Times was careful to avoid naming others, except for Grindrod whose name was already associated. They chose to mention Mbeki. I think they wanted to smear Mbeki. They published slander that was not even available in the public domain. It was a vague insinuation that someone had dirt on Mbeki.

People (for instance, Vincent Maher of The Mail & Guardian) were criticising me for publishing sa male prostitute’s url in my blog (a criticism that I resist), but no-one has criticised The Sunday Times for being the original publisher of hearsay slander about Mbeki.

The Sunday Times reported they left a comment on the blog and received a response via email from "Skye, who claimed to be the anonymous blogger."

Now comment moderation was turned on and their alleged comment never showed up. The only person who could see The Sunday Times’ alleged comment was the person who had access to the blog’s dashboard (that’s what WordPress calls it’s control panel). So if they received a reply to their comment, it WAS the blogger. It wasn’t someone else – no-one else could see it. It’s not plausible to argue, "oh, he might have approved it for a few hours to give people a chance to see it, and then he hid it or deleted it."

My opinion is that they used ambiguous language deliberately, to give them a way out, if their story is shown to contain fabrications or "inaccuracies" later.

Emails can be traced. The headers contain the IP addresses of all the servers which handled it and also the originating IP.

The Sunday Times does not report what domain the email came from, but the blogger published his email address on his blog as samaleprostitute at yahoo dot co dot uk. Unfortunately, that address does not exist. does however. The yahoo id samaleprostitute was registered on the day he posted his first entry (April 23 2007) so there is every likelihood that that is the address he used to communicate with The Sunday Times, if they’re telling the truth. Yahoo mail contains header information that identifies the originating IP address.

I don’t know how journalists operate, but if I receive an email from someone and their location is an issue, I’m all over their headers to check it out.

On Monday May 28 2007, Die Burger reported that they had also received an email from Skye.

Now Skye blogged about both Barry Ronge (The Sunday Times) and Peet Bothma (media24). Yet he chose to communicate only with those two media organisations, ones which would have an interest in tracking him down. He didn’t email IOL, even though some commenter on my blog calling "herself" Belinda wrote that he had.

Belinda most likely works for media24. She came onto my blog disparaging me by saying that all the journalists at media24 thought I would be fool enough to republish Skye’s material as truth. She also asked, "didn’t you use to work for media24?" She was clearly acting as an agent provocateur.

She is also responsible for sowing the idea all over the SA Blogosphere that the unknown blogger is Juan Uys, for which she has provided absolutely no proof. Belinda has not furnished her true identity either. She commented too that she was harmed by Juan Uys on a previous occasion, almost losing her job. Clearly she has a score to settle with him.

Neither The Sunday Times nor media24 have reported that Skye is actually in South Africa. They can trace those emails (if they exist). They also have two employees who would want them to.

The Sunday Times reported that "someone" from the Independent Democrats had emailed Skye. Who? At what email address? Or was this also a lie?

Did The Sunday Times and media24 cut the alleged legal deal with Skye?

They may have been able to discover his true identity by approaching someone at Internet Solutions with his IP address, via their ISP (MWeb / ISPA) contacts. Assuming the email story is true, and that Skye was being truthful about having cut a legal deal, of course.

So what is the real story here?

Is there a base political motive underlying all of this?

Was this all to take a cheap swipe at Mbeki, whilst focussing a lot of public attention on Patricia de Lille and Simon Grindrod to bolster The Independent Democrats, and to settle an old score by pinning it all on a patsy, Juan Uys?

Anyone who can find definitive answers to all these questions, has a great story to write.

Vincent Maher said “Media is a grown-ups’ game, not for kiddies”

In response to Media is a grown-ups’ game, not for kiddies by Vincent Maher.

One thing is for certain, a few of them seem to think being small-time is tantamount to bravery. The Cape Town News blog explains how mainstream media are too scared to link De Lille’s call for the government regulation of blogs to a particular sex blog that the Mail & Guardian did a story on yesterday.

I’m saying that the Mainstream Media hasn’t got any balls, yes.

Jesus said, "You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men." Matthew 5:13

If the media no longer has the courage to publish and be damned, it has become worthless.

5. It will be up to the judge to decide if the story is a lie, not a bunch of scrofulous nerds

And until it is actually deemed a lie by a judge, it is what it is. It is neither lie nor truth.

4. When you spread a lie about someone its the same as telling the lie in the first place

Only if it is my intention to defame. I am linking to sa male prostitute’s blog to facilitate discussion of its merits and demerits.

In my opinion, it seems to have a ring of truth about it. It could be true.

6. If the lie turns out to be true then thats the right time to talk about it and make it public knowledge

Actually the media is already talking about it, but in the cagey, indirect, dishonest way I criticised.

I’m also not prepared to put my life on hold waiting for a judge to tell me if it’s okay to blog about and link to material that I feel is newsworthy.

7. If the lie is a lie, and you helped spread it, you are guilty.

Judge Vincent Maher has spake. Please note this down. I am guilty. Mea culpa.

BTW, Maher, you link your blog to my blog which links to sa male prostitute. Hence, you are also helping to spread the "defamation". Maybe we can be cell-mates?

Thinking you are above he law because you are using the Internet is the dumbest thing you could ever do.

I don’t think I’m above the law. What I think is that the media has lost its course. It no longer knows where True North lies.

Perhaps if enough bloggers point the way, you will remember? Trouble is, the media doesn’t want to believe the Blogosphere. It thinks to itself, "What do they know? They’re just kiddies."

It is easy to track you

So track down sa male prostitute already, if it is so easy.

If someone was doing that to you, you might understand this point a little better.

It has been done to me already. All manner of slander has been posted about me by various people on Usenet. I even had their IP addresses. Only fuckwits sue. You just ignore. That’s what you do.

Spreading slander to millions of readers a day is an irresponsible use of press freedom and the freedom of speech.

I’m not asking them to spread slander. I’m asking them to report honestly and truthfully.

I believe that I have done so in this blog.

The Great Pretenders: the Mainstream Media / Why the Blogosphere > “the Media”

The Mail & Guardian and published yesterday essentially the same story, in which they both discuss the blog of sa male prostitute, the recent cause of Patricia de Lille’s irate outburst against anonymous bloggers, but without actually saying that.

It’s dishonest. It’s disengenuous. It’s so totally totally fake, and I am weary of these "clever" manoeuvrings and word games that the mainstream media like to play.

So why do they do it? Why do they not report the story honestly and straight-forwardly?

Because according to the legal advice they received, that would leave them vulnerable to charges of helping the sa male prostitute blogger to spread his defamation. Exactly the same line that de Lille trotted out in her original complaint. And exactly the same advice which was contradicted yesterday by some other online legal expert, Reinhardt Buys.

But the mainstream media prefers to play it safe. They prefer to lay masking tape over the truth. They prefer to cloak reality in euphemisms and play their "air guitars of journalism".

They prefer to deceive their readers.

And that is why the Blogosphere is greater than the mainstream media.

We do not fear what you fear.

And that fearlessness enables us to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. The Truth that you are too scared to tell.

And that scares the heck out of some, such as Patricia de Lille, who wants that we should FEAR.

We will not.

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